You meet a man, a man with a great job. He’s financially stable and has a good head on his shoulders. He has his own car and no children. He’s ambitious and seeks to build a future with you. He’s great on paper and in person. The only issue is he runs everything that you do in your relationship past his mother. If you are going out, he makes sure to tell his mother when he’s leaving and when he’s returning. His time, when not consumed with you is consumed with his mother. Now, there’s nothing wrong with a man having a strong bond with his mother but when it takes over the relationship that you have with your girlfriend, fiancée’ or wife then it’s a problem. You have officially found what we call “A MOMMA’s BOY”!
A momma’s boy is a man that lives solely for his mother. He answers to her for everything and will indeed place you second in his life if his momma says so. She dictates every fiber of his life including and not limited to his relationships. Regardless of whether you are the best thing that has ever happened to him and he wants to marry you, she will find a reason why you are not good enough and will do her damndest to remove you from it. As the woman in his life, you come second to his mother and you will not win. As much as you try, even if she likes you, it will not end positively. She’s the Queen of the roost. Ladies, he won’t work out. Find a man that knows to stand on his own two feet and be the man you need him to be. If he’s still sucking on his momma’s nipple, how in the hell can he tend to yours??
Happy Mother’s Day!